Big Brothers Big Sisters of the National Capital Area

Meet a Big

Joyce Jones and Rasheeda
Joyce Jones, Amachi Faith-Based Initiative

"Joyce Jones has a passion for children and the skills to empower children to pursue positive activities to enrich their lives," says Michael Brown, Director of the Amachi Initiative. After retiring from 30 years with the District of Columbia Department of Corrections, Joyce knows firsthand the heartache of children being separated from their parents. So Joyce volunteered to become a Big Sister in the Amachi Mentoring Initiative. Big Sister Joyce has been matched with her Little Sister Rasheeda for the past two years. Rasheeda is 14 years old, a bright 9th grader and an Honor Roll Student in Prince George's Public Schools, where she recently earned the highest score in the county in the standardized math testing. "Rasheeda can make a real impact on society because of her openness and strong academic abilities," says Big Sister Joyce. Rasheeda is being raised by her great aunt and needed additional support from another adult. Rasheeda and Joyce have faced challenges in their relationship, but they have grown to enjoy reading, seeing old movies, shopping, singing and just being together. Joyce heard about the Amachi Initiative at Pilgrim Rest Baptist Church where she now serves as the Amachi Church Volunteer Coordinator to help recruit other volunteer mentors for the mentoring initiative. She was instrumental in creating the BBBSNCA Amachi Council, which is comprised of volunteer mentors from all partner churches who share their experiences of being a Big and support each other. Joyce is also an Americorps* VISTA Volunteer. Big Sister Joyce and Little Sister Rasheeda share a match relationship so strong that they were selected by Big Brothers Big Sisters to be part of a national recruitment video. --Wilfred Haynes, Senior Program Coordinator. Amachi Faith-Based Mentoring Initiative

Martin McCrae and Brandyn
Martin McCrae, Amachi Faith-Based Initiative

Big Brother Martin grew up as one of six children raised by his mother in southeast Washington, DC. When he was matched with his Little Brother Brandyn, 14 years old, he understood some of the challenges Brandyn faced growing up in a single-parent home also in southeast Washington. Martin was motivated to become a Big when he heard an Amachi program presentation in his church, Matthews Memorial Baptist Church -- he was ready to help others! Martin works as a financial analyst for the U.S. Federal Judiciary and knew the key to his success was education. He earned his Master's Degree from Bowie State University and was anxious to instill the importance of education in Brandyn's life. After nearly two years of their match, the positive and consistent influence of his Big Brother on Brandyn has been remarkable -- his mother is no longer called to school because of her son's behavior, he is participating in after school activities, such as baseball. Even the neighbors have noticed Brandyn's improved behavior! Big Brother Martin helps his Little Brother weekly with homework assignments. Brandyn has improved his grades to As and Bs. Brandyn has learned to have more respect for adults and that his actions have consequences; he no longer "acts out" at home, says his mother. Though he is exposed to drugs and gang activities, Brandyn has not been influenced by them. Martin believes that community service is important. Together they have shared the experience of volunteering at the Martin Luther King, Jr. Shelter feeding the homeless and participating in an annual clothing drive. Martin and Brandyn benefited from the U.S. Tennis Association/Big Brothers Big Sisters partnership and enjoyed a six-week tennis class. Brandyn was recognized as the most improved tennis player. Martin says that being a Big Brother has been one of his most rewarding experiences of his life and he encourages others at work, church and in his community to become a Big Brother to a child in need. -- Wilfred Haynes, Senior Program Coordinator, Amachi Faith-Based Mentoring Initiative